Regular readers will know Cyril Gates' articles for
Futures. They were always witty and insightful. Sadly
Cyril died of cancer just as his last article was
being circulated.
Allison and his children miss him tremendously and
so do his many friends, including us. Phil Hayes speaks
for us all.
He is perhaps the only man who could make me laugh
just thinking about him whilst gathering my thoughts
for an obituary. Cyril was a true original, one of the
most creative and original thinkers I have ever met.
He prided himself on being an ‘upside-down’ thinker,
and often that produced big laughs.
How many of us would collect all the negative feedback
we had received whilst working as a manager at the BBC
and use these insulting quotes to publicise his new
consultancy business? When Cyril launched ‘SPLAT!’ he
created a mini-brochure, which featured highlights of
insults received.
“He is at the barmy end of management!” (concluded
one appraisal).
“I am both repelled and patronised by his mediocre
sloganeering” (ranted a letter to the BBC’s in-house
paper, in response to Cyril’s groundbreaking attempts
to engage the corporation in customer service).
As a manager, when interviewing, he would refrain from
asking questions about the candidates’ past –
he only wanted to know what they might want to do in
the future. When training staff he would employ only
high-impact methods, such as outdoor courses on leadership
in the Lake District wilds.
Cyril was endlessly witty, but witty with a point.
With regard to his passion for customer service he once
wrote, “If you want to improve your own sex life try
improving someone else’s!”.
Cyril was also a very generous man. A short personal
story...
I first met when I worked at the BBC, and had the inspiring
but slightly scary privilege of acting as his trainer
on a leadership course. Cyril later appointed me as
‘Team Coach’ to his management team (executive coaching
was virtually unknown in the UK at the time).
When I left the BBC in 1994, he rang me two days later
and suggested meeting for a cup of coffee. He asked
about my plans and I told him I was starting my own
freelance consulting practice –- bold words at
a time when I had no clients and no prospects! It took
me a while to realise that Cyril was offering me a year’s
retainer for work yet to be defined – would I
mind very much just sending him a monthly invoice? –
An offer made so quietly and unobtrusively it took me
a while to twig what he was proposing
I was able to attend the recent, very moving memorial
service at Buxton with my colleague Alan Rogers. Those
who attended were treated to numerous anecdotes from
Cyril’s rich and adventurous life. Many of these stories
were about his very successful TV and theatrical career,
though several featured examples of his immense physical
and moral courage – he once carried an unexploded
bomb to safety!
We also learned more about what a loving and loved
family man he was, and how inspirational he was to many
colleagues, inside and outside the BBC, where he spent
much of his professional life.
There isn’t space here to do even small justice to
Cyril’s many talents and achievements. From our perspective
he was always a terrific friend, client and, later,
colleague and a source of great inspiration.
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