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Team building takes 101 forms. Some are very
straight forward and focused on a task. But when
something memorable or high energy is required,
every consultant has one or two special tricks
up their sleeve.
For starters, it literally fires people up.
“Wow, if I can do that, I can do anything!” So
that trebled sales target, or massive change programme
they have committed to, really become achievable
in light of their new fire-eating skills.
I am very proud of the fact that after 5 years
of teaching over 500 people how to eat fire, from
the UK to Turkey and in-between, that my boxes
of Savlon and Blistex are still unopened and everyone
who has been asked to eat fire has learnt how.
Many have hesitated, many refused in the first
instance but absolutely no-one has ever walked
away without trying – and succeeding!
Is it mind over matter?
Fire eating is not usually top of the list of
a corporate leadership competency framework when
hiring new hot talent, so what is there to be
gained in lighting up the firebrands in your boardroom?
First, people are succeeding in public. Although
I work on a one-to-one basis, the client is learning
in full public view of their colleagues, which
adds an essential pressure point. In business
we tend to know when our colleagues succeed or
fail in meeting their business objectives. Most
prefer to be seen to succeed.
Colleagues encourage each other during the learning
and celebrate accomplishment so as everyone has
their turn, the camaraderie strengthens. Each
enters the fellowship of a secret sect of corporate
fire-eaters!
Thirdly it demonstrates vividly that everyone
has it in them to learn something new. No one
is a dinosaur in this space.
Overcoming obstacles
Earlier this year the newly appointed CEO of
a Scottish financial organisation (of 4 months
standing and recruited externally) had commissioned
me to design and facilitate a strategic development
weekend. One of the objectives was to build bonds
between the teams of two very different and,
until then, separate operating companies.
The fire eating was billed as "Overcoming Obstacles
". The poor man had known about the plan and the
importance of keeping it a secret for two weeks
and his personal anxiety about doing it had built
up accordingly. To his credit he went for it after
half the group had gone. Not first and not last.
I don't warn people in advance. The point of
realisation of what we are about to do is when
I bring out my lit fire brands about five minutes
into the session after going round the group to
find out what extraordinary achievements they
are proud of such as marathons, giving birth,
climbing mountains.
It can take between 3–10 minutes to teach
someone to eat a small to medium sized flame.
If I sense great bravado or the wish to show off I'll
give them a much larger flame to start with! If
time is at a premium or to keep the pace going
after say half the group has done it, I'll teach
in pairs (me in the middle and a student either
side). This can also encourage some of those who
have been really holding back to come forward.
The element of surprise
The encouragement from colleagues, especially
for someone generally known as the quiet or timid
one, can be decisive. I recall a very senior female
manager, whose uncle was the company President,
holding back. She was immaculately dressed in
twin set and pearls and watched other peers and
subordinates go first. She was encouraged very
gently and 'coaxed with respect' by peers and
subordinates and did succeed.
As a 'reward' for her bravery, my commissioning
client, the group HRD who had not tried it in
any of the previous five groups, did so at this
point , with great nervousness masked by an excellent
facade of bravura.
The essential ingredient is state of mind. When
the positive mental intent is applied along with
the learning process, the unknown becomes known.
There really is a right and wrong way to eat fire
with some serious consequences if you don’t stick
to the rules!
The element of surprise is terrific. I am never
billed as the fire-eating slot in a strategic
leadership summit! So when people arrive for the
session they have absolutely no idea what to expect.
Isn’t that a bit what our business lives can be
like? One minute all is fine, the next your competitor
has gained ground and you are left with the challenge
to do something amazing or difficult to regain
ground.
Fiona Davidson also provides executive search,
executive coaching and other training programmes.
She can be reached at 020 7242 4030.
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